A Blood Moon & Rebirth By Fire

March has been a storm for me. It’s not neat, it’s not gentle, and it’s not giving any time to catch my breath. I’ve been feeling overwhelmed, disoriented, like the ground beneath me is shifting faster than I can adjust— and thankfully its happening for a reason.

As I mentioned before I’ve been moving through a deep season of grief. But not just grief for those I’ve lost, but grief for the versions of myself I can no longer hold onto. The habits, the mindsets, the relationships, the ways I’ve tried to keep myself “safe” that were actually keeping me small & trapped.

And that’s exactly what this eclipse season is asking of all of us:

To surrender the illusion of control.

To stop clinging to false structures that keep us trapped.

To lose our minds so we can finally find peace of mind.

Because this is not just another full moon or another new moon—this is an eclipse portal. A moment where everything shifts fast and permanently.

Virgo’s Blood Moon Eclipse (March 14th) is exposing where we have been gripping onto perfectionism, mistaking control for stability.

Aries’ Solar Eclipse (March 29th) is bringing the fire—forcing us to surrender to the unknown and step fully into the version of ourselves we’ve been too scared to claim.

This is not an easy shift, but it is a necessary one.

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Virgo energy thrives in order. It craves stability, routine, and precision. But when taken too far, Virgo becomes a perfectionist. It starts confusing control with alignment, thinking that if we can just plan everything right, nothing will ever fall apart.

And that’s the lie this eclipse is exposing.

Perfectionism is not nourishment.

Control is not the same as safety.

Hyper-functionality is not the same as being in divine flow.

The universe is ripping away what cannot sustain us because we wouldn’t let it go on our own.

And let me be clear: everything is meant to be maintained—except for what is actively harming you.

❌Limiting beliefs that keep you trapped.

❌Relationships that drain instead of nourish.

❌The pressure to have everything figured out before you take a step forward.

Virgo is blunt and discerning. It knows that divine order requires the right pieces in play. You cannot force what does not belong.

🔮Divine order does not care about perfection—it cares about function.

🔮Divine order does not ask for control—it asks for faith.

🔮Divine order says: Release the pieces that no longer fit, so you can finally build something real.

And that’s what we have to sit with under this Blood Moon Eclipse. Because if we don’t let go now, Aries will come in and burn through what we refused to release.

Aries is wild, instinctual, impulsive. It does not wait for the perfect moment. It does not second-guess. It does not cling to old versions of itself just because they feel comfortable. Aries moves. It burns. It expands. But what happens when we have been trapped for too long? This is where Women Who Run with the Wolves, Chapter 8: Self-Preservation ties in. Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés talks about what happens when a woman has been disconnected from her instincts for too long.

She doesn’t just return to herself. She doesn’t just step back into alignment with ease. She becomes feral. And feral is not bad.

Feral means you’ve woken up.

Feral means you’ve realized you’ve been starving.

Feral means you’re hungry for something real.

A feral woman has recognized the trap—but she doesn’t always know how to get out.

A wild woman has reclaimed her instincts—she moves with purpose, not desperation.

And that’s the key to this Aries Solar Eclipse. It’s not just about waking up. It’s about what you do with that hunger. If you haven’t cleared space, Aries will feel like chaos. You’ll jump into anything just to feel alive. You’ll mistake movement for progress and passion for alignment.

Now if you have done the work?

🔥This Aries New Moon will feel like the breath of fresh air you’ve been waiting for.

🔥You’ll finally feel free to step into your full, untamed power.

🔥You’ll understand that true wildness isn’t chaos—it’s expansion.

Because we are meant to spill over. We are meant to be fully seen, fully felt, fully known. The only question is: Are you ready to break your own cage?

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This eclipse season is a deep dive into trust. Are you willing to surrender, to release the false sense of control that has kept you stagnant? Or are you going to cling to something that was never meant to sustain you, hoping it will somehow feed you anyway?

Faith is knowing you are safe to expand. That you do not need to stay small just because it’s familiar. Ultimately no matter how much you lose, what is meant for you will always return. The universe is telling us to move with life force and intent so we can trust the fire within. And I’ll keep you as posted as I can on how that goes for me ok?

Below is the exclusive content for paid subscribers, where you’ll receive your Eclipse Season Digital Mojo Bag—a collection of rituals and tools to help you move through this transformation with clarity, intention, and ease.

✨ What’s Inside:

🔮 Blood Moon Water Recipe & Ritual – Harness the full potency of this eclipse portal with a powerful lunar infusion ritual that must be done between March 14th–16th for maximum effect.

🎥 Eclipse Masterclass – A deep dive into how to work with eclipse energy, set intentions, and navigate eclipse portals with strategy and flow.

🌀 EFT Tapping Session – A full tapping practice designed to clear emotional & energetic blocks so you’re not carrying dead weight into Aries season.

🎶 The Eclipse Season Playlist – A curated list of songs I’ve had on repeat to soothe my mind, ground my energy, and help me move with the shift instead of resisting it.

📩 Direct Access for Eclipse Questions – Paid subscribers can submit specific questions about their personal eclipse journey and receive direct responses.

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